Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Vipassana Romance

This NYT article about 'Vipassana Romance' has gotten a lot of attention in the Buddhist blogosphere this week.

I've read other articles about 'falling in love' during meditation retreats. There's often some accompanying reader comment about how group meditation 'makes our hearts open to possibilities in the eternal now' and blah and blah.

No one ever seems to notice that this isn't romance — it's just infatuation.

"His wrist peeped out of the sleeve, endearingly bony and frail." I mean, really — Jesus Christ.

Speaking of whom, Southern Baptists do the same thing. They'll quote I Corinthians 13 while banging each other in the back of the choir bus, and reassure themselves it's a profound spiritual experience they're having.

I guess what bugs me most about this is people who get involved with allegedly spiritual pursuits, when actually they're just looking for hookups.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Many years ago Pagan Kennedy wrote some very funny books about the 1970 - 80s. Too bad she has slipped. Is EVERYONE a romance addict these days?

Anonymous said...

NOT ME! I swore off it a couple of years ago and have been enjoying the peace and absence of drama. I might sign up for it again in the future, but I'm in no rush.

Lark

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